There is a difference between Team success and Team building OR Leading a team.
Team building is a process while team success is the outcome of how nicely you followed the process.
So concentrating on process and not the outcome…

The Purpose: Find out the purpose for which the team members are working, of course every one has his/her own purpose of doing anything. Once you relate the task you want your team to do, with their purpose of living, surely team member will put their 100% in it. Commitment, Hard work etc will come automatically.
Build Relationship: The deeper your relationship with others, the more effective will be your leadership. People will not follow you if they do not trust you, and before someone will lend you a hand, you must first touch their heart. For relationship building careful listening, keeping promises, caring are the key features.
Lead by action: we can not lie to our team members, they will smell if we ourself not doing something and expecting them to do it. It goes like monkey see monkey do. Try to set higher benchmarks by your actions because no matter the benchmarks are good or bad every team member going to follow it.
Be a liberator: Great leaders are always a liberator not a dictator. Leading a team is not about completing a project successfully or doing the assigned task, its about taking a team to a higher level. Let your team perform at its fullest without fear, don’t dictate just lead. of course their will be mistakes, might be blunders.. so what, if its not allowed to fall no one can learn to run.
How to Manage Failure:
This excerpt is taken from the speech of Former President of India APJ Abdul Kalam given at Wharton India Economic forum in Philadelphia on March 22,2008.
A Leader Should Know How to Manage Failure
Question: Could you give an example, from your own experience, of how leaders should manage failure?
Kalam: Let me tell you about my experience. In 1973 I became the project director of India’s satellite launch vehicle program, commonly called the SLV-3. Our goal was to put India’s “Rohini†satellite into orbit by 1980. I was given funds and human resources — but was told clearly that by 1980 we had to launch the satellite into space. Thousands of people worked together in scientific and technical teams towards that goal.
By 1979 — I think the month was August — we thought we were ready. As the project director, I went to the control center for the launch. At four minutes before the satellite launch, the computer began to go through the checklist of items that needed to be checked. One minute later, the computer program put the launch on hold; the display showed that some control components were not in order. My experts — I had four or five of them with me — told me not to worry; they had done their calculations and there was enough reserve fuel.
So I bypassed the computer, switched to manual mode, and launched the rocket. In the first stage, everything worked fine. In the second stage, a problem developed. Instead of the satellite going into orbit, the whole rocket system plunged into the Bay of Bengal. It was a big failure.
That day, the chairman of the Indian Space Research Organization, Prof. Satish Dhawan, had called a press conference. The launch was at 7:00 am, and the press conference — where journalists from around the world were present — was at 7:45 am at ISRO’s satellite launch range in Sriharikota [in Andhra Pradesh in southern India]. Prof. Dhawan, the leader of the organization, conducted the press conference himself.
He took responsibility for the failure — he said that the team had worked very hard, but that it needed more technological support. He assured the media that in another year, the team would definitely succeed. Now, I was the project director, and it was my failure, but instead, he took responsibility for the failure as chairman of the organization.
The next year, in July 1980, we tried again to launch the satellite — and this time we succeeded. The whole nation was jubilant. Again, there was a press conference. Prof. Dhawan called me aside and told me, “You conduct the press conference today.â€
I learned a very important lesson that day. When failure occurred, the leader of the organization owned that failure. When success came, he gave it to his team. The best management lesson I have learned did not come to me from reading a book; it came from that experience.
Lead by Heart: So many times it seems like few team members are not sincere or not committed or not trying to understand what we want them to understand or simply they don’t have the attitude, and we blame on them.
But the reality is they are not simply under your leadership. To overcome this we simply need to strengthen our leadership. If every team member is having all the good qualities then whats the need of a leader. Yeah its easy to blame but the fact is a true leader never blame on his team, they take responsibility, they build a team, they lead ..and lead by heart.
And one more thing, don’t try to relate leader with post/position.
A leader is a person who take responsibilities without blaming others, help to grow every one, build relationship with every one . He can be a team member, team lead, project lead or may be a third person, whatever doesn’t matter.
The bottom line is every one of us is a leader ,
So for team building be a leader of your team, and success will be the byproduct.
#1 by shweta - July 24th, 2008 at 18:26
ya i really agree with your thoughts,there has to deep understanding,bonding between team members and team lead.If Team lead acts on his responsibility he will definetly inculcate those values in his team. The only mantra for a team to achieve success,is to stop blame game.Hope people learn something from this article and become a good leader.
#2 by Vijay - July 24th, 2008 at 18:48
Hey Pankaj, very nice information i think every leader is like Prof. Dhawan. But main thing about the team success is “its not about who take responsibility whatever it is ( in failure or success ) but is all about effort given by team( including team members & team leader) to make their project successful”.
#3 by Pravina - July 24th, 2008 at 19:11
@pankaj
Really nice blog. Actually well written and conveyed. I personally feel that every process should be accurately followed which leads to good product. It may be product making, team building or as simple as tea or coffee making.
Every single stuff is important….with a little bit of luck.
#4 by Junia - July 24th, 2008 at 19:37
very well pankaj for such a nice eye opener blog….
it reminds me a real life story..it goes like this..
I was in class VIII, i was one of the team member of a team which had been qualified for the state level competition. our leader Rekha di was superb in leading us and inspiring us. But after qualifying for the state level we, team members became over confident and used to do time pass during the time alloted to us for rehearsals and we used to give some nice excuses to Rekha di for not rehearsing. She never scolded us. One day our coordinator mam wanted to see our rehearsal.
AND WE MESSED IT!!!!
It was rekha di she told mam that we are doing our best but she(rekha di) could not attend us due her studies. It was really a very bad excuse and mam scolded her in front of everyone..she didnt utter a word or blamed us and from the next day we all started working out on our rehearsals by our own and learnt a lesson how to convince people to work for you. and the best part when we won the state level competion and came back to school , our prinicipal mam asked rekha di to recieve an award..she went to stage and said “Thank you my team for giving this and please come up on the stage bcoz you people deserve this more than I do”
She is really amazing.
Thanks pankaj for reminding me someone whom i admire a lot…:)
Well done!!
#5 by Michael Fernando - July 24th, 2008 at 19:50
Hi Pankaj, Nice blog.
I have some comments.
Disagreement No 1(Paradoxical Statements):
“Once you relate the task you want your team to do, with their purpose of living, surely team member will put their 100% in it. Commitment, Hard work etc will come automatically.”
I will compare this statement to a statement you made in the end:
“If every team member is having all the good qualities then whats the need of a leader. ”
My Say:
This is paradoxical.
Disagreement No 2:
“Great leaders are always a liberator not a dictator.”
My Say:
Examples of Dictators: Napoleon Bonaparte, Augustus, Mussolini, Hitler.
We also have a great dictator in India who is often criticized. But he has abolished corruption to a great extent in his state, he has made his state electiricity independent and a state with modern facilities included. That state ranks No.1 in investment today. And he is totally responsible for that feat of that state.
I agree with all the other points.
#6 by pankaj sharma - July 24th, 2008 at 20:18
@Shweta and vijay: Agreed.
@Preveena:
Yeah its well said in a dialog from bawarchi movie, “It`s so simple to be great but so difficult to be simple”.
@Junia:
You reminded me another story of a leader. whenever his name was called on stage he clapped harder and clapped till end. I was confused with that and asked him why you were clapping for yourself? He simply replied that its you who looking at me like i’ve achieved something and clapping for myself. For me its not the situation, I didn’t achieved anything and was just clapping for my team members.
#7 by pankaj sharma - July 24th, 2008 at 20:24
Hey Michael,
You forgot to mention Osama bin laden, and Saddam Husain also In the list of dictators.
Well sorry, i was talking about leaders.
Thanks for being agree on other parts.
#8 by Michael Fernando - July 24th, 2008 at 20:47
@ pankaj
I didnt forget to mention Osama and Saddam. They arent good leaders in my view and so I didnt mention them.
All the others that I have mentioned are “great” leaders. Dictators neednot be bad or crazy. Really. Dictators can also be benevolent. While Hitler cannot be called benevolent, he is ofcourse a great leader. Dont confuse “bad or crazy people” with “great dictator leaders”.
#9 by Jijo Anthony - July 31st, 2008 at 19:23
Hi Pankaj,
This is really a very good article on leadership and how an ideal leader should be.After reading this article i remember a latest story about leadership i.e of IPL.We all know at the start of IPL jaipur was the weakest team with many of the players being average…….but they had a very good leader in shane warne.He just turned the below average team into match winners.So i would say that leading a team is an art that can be acquired.
#10 by pankaj - August 4th, 2008 at 21:47
That was the right example jijo.
Of course leadership can be acquired, Shane Warne never been the caption in Australia. I think he displayed three qualities of a leader,
1) Set example for team (he performed not only with ball but bat also and won matches for his team).
2) Make your team feel fearless(there was no expectation from warne and his team and therefor no pressure).
3) Use your team member wisely.
And he done it really well.
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